Do you want to save your marriage? Let’s do it together. I am saying together because I have been in your exact situation and have made a lot of mistakes, as well as the right things to do. So I have a lot of experience in this issue which I want to pass onto other spouses in a marriage crisis. I feel strongly that the institution of marriage is a sacred one and is what keeps us unified. It’s a pity that 87% of all marriages fail. I do not believe that there are any hopeless marriages – every marriage can be saved if you do the right things.As with most people, my first reaction when I understood that my marriage was ending was to go desperate. This is a very common reaction and makes you search for something that will quickly fix your marriage. I felt that I couldn’t just sit back and wait for my marriage to end in divorce – I needed to DO something to save my marriage! So this drove me to do all the wrong things, such as trying to talk my husband out of his demand of divorce. I apologized and apologized for everything, and then I begged him to reconsider. Obviously the wrong things to do – but how can you save your marriage otherwise, I thought.Unfortunately, all those things did was to make my husband even more fed up with me, and the marriage overall. But something changed the issue for me – and it led to eventually saving my marriage: I noticed that I was so desperate that I was totally unable to think correctly about how to save your marriage. I had let my emotions overwhelm me and they were guiding me to do the wrong things. I realized that I needed to stop this from happening – and I realized that I needed some outside advice.This is what changed everything for me! So, if you want to save your marriage, you must definitely ask for or seek some outside advice from a trusted source. Your own emotions are taking you nowhere.
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